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yesterday i was at my boyfriend's house.We got a little carried away then we ended up compelety naked.we didn't have sex but he did place his penis on my vagina but didn't enter and when i touched it i saw som liquid on my finger though it was colourles

By Anonymous June 24, 2016 - 5:03am
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I just freaked out,got dressed and left him with no explanation.please help me coz i cannot think of anything else but this

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Hello Anonymous,

Welcome to EmpowHER. I am glad you reached out to us. I will do my best to try to calm your fears, but this was risky behavior.

Your vagina is inside of your body. It is an elastic, muscular canal with a soft, flexible lining that provides lubrication and sensation. The vagina connects the uterus to the outside world. The vulva and labia form the entrance, and the cervix of the uterus protrudes into the vagina, forming the interior end.

Pregnancy occurs when sperm gets into the vagina or on the vulva. The vulva is the external female genitalia that includes the folds of skin, or labia, and clitoris.

There was a risk when he placed his penis on your vulva. However, if this fluid was colorless, it probably was pre ejaculate fluid.

Pre-ejaculate is the liquid that leaks out of the penis during sexual arousal but before ejaculation. Pre-ejaculate is not semen and does not contain sperm. But, it can pick up sperm remaining in his urethra from a previous ejaculation. Once he urinates, any stowaway sperm is flushed out.

Anonymous, I don't think you were at risk for becoming pregnant this time. In the future, please have him use a condom and you must choose and use some type of birth control. You can learn more by visiting our Contraceptive home page.


June 24, 2016 - 6:49am
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