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My boyfriend and I engaged in manual sex. If before fingering me he had semen on his hands, I wanted to know if him washing his hands with soap and water is enough to get rid of the sperm so it can't get my pregnant. I'm not on birth control and we didn't use protection. As a precaution before manual sex aka fingering, are soap and water enough to make sure that my boyfriend has no sperm on his hands? I also gave him a handjob and he ejaculated with wet fresh semen on my hands but I went to the bathroom and washed it off with luke warm water and antibacterial soap and then dried after. After drying I urinated and washed my vagina with antibacterial soap touching it with the same hand, in order to prevent a UTI. I'm sorry I'm just really worried that I may not be pregnant so I'm freaking myself out. This event happened March 15th (11 days after my period had started) so its been over 2 weeks since then, if I take a pregnancy test will it be accurate? I don't expect my period till April 3rd
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Hello Anonymous,
Once semen dries, sperm dies. Wiping your hands probably removed the semen.
Vaginal pain is not a sign of early pregnancy.
If you are not ready to become a mother, I suggest you start using some form of birth control on a daily basis.
Maryann
September 5, 2012 - 4:55pmThis Comment
Hello Anonymous,
A baby wipe product is effective as was your hand cleansing technique. No need to worry because I do not think your girlfriend could become pregnant this way.
Maryann
September 4, 2012 - 4:03pmThis Comment
Hello Anonymous,
By you fingering her, your girlfriend is not a virgin any more.
Wiping your hands with a wet tissue and antiseptic (soap?) removes any semen. I don't think your girlfriend could have become pregnant from this sexual encounter.
Maryann
September 3, 2012 - 5:24pmThis Comment
Sorry not antiseptic but only wet tissue for a baby..but imm preety sure I really clean my hand with that wet tissue..i even cleaned it finger by finge
September 3, 2012 - 7:15pmr..just I didnt wait until its really dry then I fingered her...u know wet tissue makes ur hand wet also. so is it still possible that my gf can be pregnant?im so worried about that..
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I also have the same problem but a it different..my gf gave me a blow job after that I ejaculated and I got semen on my and and iI wiped it with wet tissue with antiseptic but I didnt dry it until really dry and then I continue to fingered her until my middle finger is really deep inside..can she get pregnant after I doing that?but she is a virgin lady..please help me..
September 2, 2012 - 10:17pmThis Comment
Hi, my boyfriend and I engaged in manual sex last night. We both touched his penis, which may have had precum on it, and awhile later he fingered me. I am on birth control, but I expect my period in five to six days. Is there a possibility of me becoming pregnant? Thanks.
September 2, 2012 - 9:51amThis Comment
Hello Anonymous,
You cannot become pregnant by your boyfriend fondling your buttocks. Any semen that was on your fingers would have come off on the toilet tissue. Depending on the amount of time, the semen might have dried and the sperm died.
There is very little chance of getting pregnant this way, but all it takes is one sperm.
Depending upon your personal definition of virginity, since you have engaged in sexual activity, you are no longer a virgin.
You need to start using some form of birth control daily. Using birth control consistently and abstinence are the only ways to prevent an unwanted pregnancy.
Maryann
August 27, 2012 - 4:41pmThis Comment
On august 23 at 9 pm me nd my boyfriend were being dum like any other teen ... we were rubbbing againstg eachother wit cloths on but then he went in his pants a few times cuz he said his penis was in a wrong position so he fixed it but idk if he had precum i think his hands were pretty dry but am not so sure he said they were but i dont know but the thing is after he fixed his penis he starteed to rubb my butt and grab it all over could thatget me pregnat?? Am not sure if his hands had some precum nd if they were really dry and then i gave him a hand job and he had some wetness that i got on my fingers i guess it was precum i whipped it off on cloths nd a few mins maybe five mins later i ddidnt wash myh hands and i used the toilet to pee and grabbed toilet paper and whipped myself could that get me pregnat cuz maybe i had some precum even tho i whipped it off and i also toucheed myh underwear on the inside sorda when i pulled them up after peeing could i maybe have accidently gotprecum on my underwear like that nd culd that get me prego am sorry im a virgin nd 17 i dnt wana b pregoo!!
August 25, 2012 - 11:04amThis Comment
Hello Anonymous,
Yes, take a look at his hands before you let him touch you.
Maryann
August 24, 2012 - 5:00pmThis Comment
Can u tell if a guy has cum on his hands or not before ur fingered
August 23, 2012 - 5:25pmThis Comment