I've known my boyfriend for 13 years, we went to high school together. We actually dated for 2 weeks when I was 14, and I broke up with him because he was too nice. We would see each other every now and then through mutual friends, and we always got along. As I got older I was so attracted to him, and finally he made the moves on me after 12 years. We have been dating for almost a year now, and we just moved in together. Ironically, he is not the nice guy he used to be, and I'm shocked! We kinda butt heads, because we are both very stubborn! He has a big past of being a ladies man, and have tons of sexually partners. So you can understand my shock when I'm the sex machine, and he rather just hang out. I know he loves me, and I'm pretty sure he is attracted to me, but it really hurts my self esteem that sex doesn't really matter that much to him. We fight about this the most! He says it's not me, but what is it? I thought maybe at first he was just nervous, because we have known each other for so long, and never had sex before? Or that he smokes too much weed? Or stress at work? But, now I just don't know? Even when we go out, and we get home and he's been drinking you'd think he'd be horny, but he just passes out. So I lay in bed, and cry. Guys say they want a girl that wants to have sex all the time...but do they really? We do it like every four days, but mostly cause he wants too or because he just wants me too shut up about it. I just wish he wanted me like I want him:( I know he's not cheating, I trust him. But, I just need some advice please!
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