I have a high sex drive, and would prefer having sex several times a week. My boyfriend does not even want to have sex anymore, he claims it is "no longer fun" and "hurts" him physically to do so, as in his stomach/head hurts after orgasming.
We've been together for five years and he is 20 years old. He recently went off of zoloft a few months ago, and never really ever was as completely uninterested as he is now.
Another girl kissed him a few weeks ago, which drew out a long argument to the point of us almost breaking up (which in five years a situation like that has never happened), which somewhat made our relationship better for a week, but now again just makes me sad to be around him, because I feel like he doesn't want me physically, so he doesn't want me at all.
He isn't working currently, and is just attending school.. he is not poor or having any sort of money struggle.
I want to be with him, and I want him to want me. He is my best friend and my whole world, I just want him to be on the same page sexually that I am.
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