I dated a guy for 2yrs then come to find out that while we were separated for 9mths he got a girl pregnant, when we hooked back up he did not mentioned it to me not until after the baby was 3mths old.He said that while we were dating he did not want a relationship, i was the one wanting it, REASON he claimhe was dealing with trust issues.the girl he had the baby with say they were in an open relationship for 8yrs that ended 3mths ago, he say he dont want her nor did he want the baby.Im pregnant by him and he want me to have an abortion, i dont want to have an abortion nor do I want to have a child with him.I have had an abortion in the pass it still drive me crazy.I need help please, what to do? Im 26yr have my own place, booming career, and about to start grad school.my parents are fond of him, my sister dont have a liking for him. Im too ashame and embarrassed to talk to my family.
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