My boyfriend has been a real gem lately. We have had our share of ups and downs, but he's been really nice and thoughtful for the most part. A little background... my b-f has a huge problem discussing his past relationships. He always says he has never had another g-f before me, although I know of at least 2 girls that he has gone out with fairly seriously. I know this b-c I have found pictures of him with these other 2 girls, both of whom have children. I was previously married and have children as well. My ex and I share custody, but the b-f and I have lived together for over 2 years (his home that I moved into). In my boyfriend's telephone, he still has the number of the one girl with whom he went out with. He has changed phones (but not the #) a few times in the last year or so. Everytime he changes his phone, I have noticed this one girl always gets put into the new one. Anyway, this evening after my b-f had been Mr. Wonderful, I was cleaning out under the kitchen sink and found an old shopping bag to a ladies specialty store. It kind of bothered me b-c it wasnt mine. So like an idiot I brought it up. He said he didn't know whose it was but it wasn't his, and that he has never bought anyone anything from there except me. Well I knew it was a lie so I pressed on. He told me he didn't want to talk about it and that I was the one who moved in, and if he had moved in w/me that I would prob have items or pictures of people that I had dated too. I guess I have a problem with him having pictures of old g-f's and definitely having their phone number in his phone. So it became very heated, and he told me that I needed to shut up about it, that he wasn't listening. I then told him to call this girl he had in his phone and see what she's up to. He then told me to f-off and went into the other room and shut the door. I left for awhile (2 hours) to calm down. Of course he refused to come to bed. I apologized when I got home, and he said to leave him alone. So he is sleeping in the other room, totally refusing to speak to me. It has been 7 hours since our argument, and I can't sleep. I just want things to be right again. I feel like a jerk for ever bringing it up, as things have been going really good. It's just the issue with this phone number that has really been bothering me. Any advice on how to make it right?
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