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Coach Virginia

Dear Michelle, I truly appreciate your posting and agree with many of your observations.

The word EMPOWHER describes the timeliness of this site. A few years ago, the Internet opened the flood and access to information to thousands of sites that offer information about every aspect of our lives! But it also opened the gates to misleading information, false promises and exagerated claims. I call this the "wild, wild west" of the knowledge era.

Women are lucky to have a community like EmpowHer.com where top experts and qualified moderators can coach, educate and guide along with understanding multiple issues that affect women (young and old) in health, healing and other supporting areas. We are at the casp of revolution in healthcare. Our audience is too smart to accept "business as usual" when it comes to their health. We are also at the cutting edge of what health care will become. The paradigm is shifting and women will be more empowered to define the path to healing and wellness.

Our healthcare system will not longer sustain a "disease-centered" model of care. I hope this community will continue to help women gain a better understanding of the POWER they hold in their hands to achieve a greater quality of life, achieve healing, and contribute to sustaining the values of the human race.

Susan Cody

Michelle

Thanks for this - I really like it.

I have found that there are two kinds of medical professionals - those who don't like empowered (I find it really hard to write 'empower' now without the H!) patients because they are either threatened by a knowledgeable patient because they have questions prepared and ask further questions when given medical advice. No Yes Men here! These patients take time and make a doctor work a little harder! Some doctors also simply don't like patients who may challenge them a little. They enjoy their authority and don't like it questioned.

Then there are the doctors who value and appreciate a patient who comes in well-prepared and well-read. This doesn't mean that we, as patients, are educated in the same manner as trained doctors, nor have we their expertize or experience, but it means we access the information out there and put it to good use, in an intelligent, informed and well-researched manner. A doctor who appreciates this kind of empowered patient is the one to keep - the first kind is the one to move on from.

A doctor patient relationship is not a parent-child kind of relationship, nor is it a authoritative-submissive one. To work effectively, it has to be a team effort, with both parties working together, for health and wellness.

Thank you!

Anonymous

Dear Michelle,

Well said and timely. I am a family physician who blissfully cares for exactly this kind of empowhered (and empowhimed?) persons! There are always at least two options in every situation, and usually many many options. Most of the time, the variables to be considered include ones that only the person living their life can weigh (sometimes with input from their family and friends). Only the people affected can evaluate issues of autonomy, privacy, loneliness, need for care, willingness to take on risk and personal responsibility, impact of decisions on relationships, family resources, and spirituality. I really enjoy engaging with people to bring their values to the table as they decide how to manage their own health. I recommend that everyone have a "health committee". The person needs to be the chair and then interview and hire folks to serve on the committee. The key is to see these people as advisors and helpers, to stay in charge yourself, and to never forget who hired these people and who can replace them should the need arise.

Again, thank you for your words and wisdom

Elizabeth Allemann, MD
Columbia Missouri

CharlotteSal

Michelle,

This is excellent. I have made it my personal mission to make sure that my friends and well.. any one I meet willing to talk about health, know what all their options are.

I refer people to this site all the time, I am so grateful for it.

Thanks.

Haralee

You are on the mark Michelle. We have to be our own advocates. I love Dr. Elizabeth's comments about a comittee.I have told friends and family when they complain about a practictioner to fire them. Doctors fire patients too. They may couch it with not being able to get an appointment, or recommending a specialist, but they want to fire patients too. You need a relationship with your health care provider that works.

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