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By Anonymous October 9, 2015 - 6:10pm
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My gf and I were staying in a hotel for 2 nights and we had a shower together. I did remember that I touched my penis and rubbed the precm away with my fingers for around 5 seconds. We then mutually masturbated each other. My question is will the sperm die if I rubbed it against my fingers during hot shower? My gf is already missing a period and I'm really worried. Is there any chance of pregnancy in situation like this?!

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Hello Anonymous,

Welcome to EmpowHER and thank you for coming to us with your concern about the risk for pregnancy in this situation.

If the shower was running while you wiped, most likely any fluid was washed off your fingers and went down the drain.

I do not think there was a risk for pregnancy.

Has your girlfriend missed her monthly period completely? If so, I need to ask if she has engaged in unprotected intercourse since her last period. Then she needs to take a home pregnancy test now.


October 10, 2015 - 6:09am
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Anonymous (reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

Nope. We have never have sex before. Her last period was on 22 August . Her period usually lasts for 7 days. However, she hasn't have a period since then. I'm really worried, so is she!

October 10, 2015 - 7:10am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anonymous,

Thank you for the clarification. All that I can suggest is she schedules an appointment with her gynecologist to have some blood tests done to check hormone levels.


October 10, 2015 - 7:44am
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