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i dont get orgasm when i have sex

By Anonymous November 18, 2011 - 3:17am
 
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I,m 23 yeras old married. my husband ejaculates within 1 to 2 minutes while having sex. i dont feel orgasm i.m really disappointed. this happens all the time.I use to masturbate since 13years old .is this causing any problem to me for not having orgasm.

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yes i get orgasm when i masturbate. but my husband ejaculates very soon just within 1 to 2 minutes while having sex. is there any problem with him.

November 19, 2011 - 4:30am
(reply to nalinis)

Hi nalinis,

If your husband is ejaculating withing 1-2 minutes, it may benefit both of you to engage in foreplay first until you orgasm and then you can move on to penetration in order to satisfy him. Don't be afraid to use your toys during sex with your husband. If him ejaculating early is an issue with you and/or him then you can try the start/stop method found here: http://ezinearticles.com/?Premature-Ejaculation---Start-and-Stop-Method&id=746958

I hope this helps,

Rosa

November 19, 2011 - 7:20am

Hi Anon,

Sometimes when you explore your body it could be a great thing, but when you do it so often it can be harder to get pleasure from sex than it is to reach an orgasm by yourself. Do you achieve orgasms when you masturbate?

There are questions similar to yours that may help: http://www.empowher.com/community/ask/why-cant-i-orgasm-ive-read-much-subject-and-still-am-having-problems

http://www.empowher.com/community/ask/why-cant-i-orgasm

This article is extremely helpful, please make sure you read it: http://www.empowher.com/female-sexual-dysfunction/content/why-can-t-i-orgasm-part-i

Best,

Rosa

November 18, 2011 - 7:59am
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