Hi! Me and my fiance has been dating for a year and a half now and we are living together. Things have been great and I feel like our relationship is stronger than ever. We have been through a lot with each other and I definitely think that he is the one. We argue from time to time, but I think it is only normal for couple to argue.
He joined the army and he is leaving in a couple months, and that raises a lot of questions for us. Before he joined the army, we were planning on getting married sometimes next year. Now that he is leaving in a few months, things are getting very confusing, I don't know what to do. He will be leaving for 6 months for basic training and school, and we were going to get married after that. Then one day, he asked me what if we get married before he goes. I didn't give him an answer then, but a few days ago, I was thinking about it and I think it is a good idea to get married before he goes, because I really think it will make us stronger than we are already. So I told him let's get married before he goes, and he was hesitated. I was bumped out, I felt like I was shut down and that I put myself out there and get rejected in a sense. I told him how I felt and he said, he was only hesitated because he just wanted to make sure that I will be able to handle him being gone for six months.
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