my boyfriend is all was asleep! what to do??????

think he's either lost his libido, or may be a switch hitter.

Eli,

Does he suffer from depression? What does he do for a living?

I know my husband would give anything to just spend his days off in bed-- but he works almost 60 hours a week and uses his days off for himself.
Your boyfriend could very well just be tired or if he doesn't work a lot (or at all) does he seem disinterested in going out and socializing or doing things around the house? Have you suggested that you guys do things outside of the house together?

There are certain things such as a thyroid problem that may cause sleepiness, lack of energy, etc. So, if he does not seem depressed to you-- this could very well be the case. It may not necessarily be his thyroid-- there is also Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, please see: https://www.empowher.com/news/herarticle/2010/02/23/my-top-ten-chronic-fatigue-syndrome-warning-signs-impending-crash

Either way, I think it would benefit your boyfriend to pay a visit to his doctor and get a complete physical done.

Best of luck!