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I can't believe I'm asking this but I'm starting to freak out a little bit.
A few days after my period ended, my boyfriend and I were "messing around." He put his bare penis up to my bare vagina and started rubbing before I told him to stop and put on a condom. (I'm not on any other form of birth control right now.) No ejaculation and no penetration, just possible precm on my vagina.
I didn't think anything of it at the time, but now my period is a few days late - I've had some weird light brown spotting with period-esque cramps, but no period. My breasts are tender and look a little bigger to me, and my skin has absolutely exploded with acne (although that is not unusual for me). I'm kind of freaking out.
I took a sensitive early test the day my period should have come, and it was negative, but still no period. A pregnancy would be absolutely devastating, especially without intercourse - I'm not even sure my boyfriend would believe me. :(
I should mention that I recently stopped taking the Pill because it was making me super depressed and physically ill. I was told to expect some cycle weirdness after stopping, but I'd gone through two full cycles and my period seemed perfectly normal.
Am I making myself nuts or is there a real risk here?
Thanks very much for your help.
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Hello Anonymous,
I wish I could offer some way for you to shrug this off, but can't other than to say four negative pregnancy test results confirm you are not pregnant.
Regards,
January 26, 2017 - 9:41amMaryann
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Hi there, I have a question to ask:
January 23, 2017 - 5:22amMy boyfriend and I had sex today evening but he haven't ejaculated yet...because I was so scared and I'm on my period the 5th day of 7 days period. Do I have to take the emergency contraception (morning after pill) to prevent pregnant? Thanks.
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Hello Anonymous,
Sorry for the delay in replying to your question. I hope you did not take an emergency contraceptive because it was not necessary. There was no risk of getting pregnant when having sex while on your period.
Regards,
January 26, 2017 - 9:39amMaryann
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I am asking for a friend. She and her boyfriend were messing around 11 days after her period and then her boyfriend inserted about 1/4 or half of his penis into her vagina for about 5 seconds. She said that she wipes the tip of his penis to make sure no precum will enter into her. But after he removed the penis he inserted it again for another 5 seconds but this tume she forgot to wipe the precum if theres any. No ejaculation and real penetration happened. Will she get pregnant with pre cum? Please answer. Shes having anxiety because of this. Thank you!
P.S he ejaculated a few day before that happened and then he urinated 4 times that day before that happened.
January 20, 2017 - 5:07pmThis Comment
should i take pills fro. being worried to get pregnant from a precum which was released outside and near my opening?
it is tge 5th day today.
January 18, 2017 - 10:39pmThis Comment
"my bf rubbed me over ny private part near my opening. he most probably precum at me but didnt ejaculate. we were like having sex while he was on top of me but there is no penetration. btw, his last ejaculation was a week ago.
i think it was during my ovulation period that day.
will i be pregnant??? i should have my pregnant about now but im having irregular periid so i cant know my exact date of my next period. my last period was Dec 19.
im having creamy white discharge atleast once a day. is it normal just before ny period?? pls give me peace of mind. help me!"
I mean... i should have my period by now but i have irregular schedule.
I am sure he didnt ejaculated inside me or on me. he ejaculated after I totally got dressed. but he precum on me... near my opening. will i get pregnant because of this?
im sorry. i just need confirmation. pls?
January 18, 2017 - 3:02pmThis Comment
my bf rubbed me over ny private part near my opening. he most probably precum at me but didnt ejaculate. we were like having sex while he was on top of me but there is no penetration. btw, his last ejaculation was a week ago.
i think it was during my ovulation period that day.
will i be pregnant??? i should have my pregnant about now but im having irregular periid so i cant know my exact date of my next period. my last period was Dec 19.
im having creamy white discharge atleast once a day. is it normal just before ny period?? pls give me peace of mind. help me!
January 18, 2017 - 2:10pmThis Comment
i mean i should have my period by now. he didnt ejaculate inside me or on me. He also didnt penetrate me. But he precum near at my opening. will i get pregnant? it happened during my ovulation period. i really hope not. pls pls help me. Im in panic for almost a week.
January 18, 2017 - 3:06pmThis Comment
I haven't ejaculated for 2 days right now. Is pregnancy possible if the pre-cum came in contact with the vaginal opening? (rubbing the penis on the anus but it slipped, touched the vaginal opening)
January 18, 2017 - 7:38amThis Comment
hi. i am actually getting paranoid for days. I need your help. My bf and I got naughty 4 days ago. We got naked. and he rubbed me his penis over my private part. he was on top of me and moved like we were having sex but it didnt penetrate. it wasnt on my mind that I later on believed i was on my ovulation period that day. Anyway, he only ejaculated after I got dressed. I was worried about his precum while rubbing me.Also.. he didnt ejaculate before we did that. his last ejaculation was days ago. Im currently on observation about my hormonal imbalance and having a regular period. So, i feel lost and so paranoid. I had my last period Dec 19 so im expecting it tomorrow.
My question is.. is there a possibility that i can get pregnant from what we did? pls help me.
January 18, 2017 - 1:52amThis Comment