He is 50 years old. He took several pictures of women in their bikini's frolicking on the beach and butt shots too. Some of the pictures were of teenagers. There was a shot of the teenage girls grouped together by the ocean. Then of them walking down the beach together. I was in some of the pictures with the teenagers, but I was to the far right while he made sure teenagers were still in camera range as they walked by me. He took two pictures of a lady in her bikini standing reading a book in the ocean as she watched her son, from behind her and then he pointed the camera down and got one of her headless but from behind which included the water. It looked like he was taking a picture of water when indeed it was her he was taking a picture of, so he wouldn't get caught. We took a sailing trip and one lady in a bikini kept running up to the front of the sail boat. He was sitting down on the boat and beside her. Of course, his camera pointed upward and he took nine full shots of her which included the sails mast above her. They were full vertical shots to include her whole body from behind and a good view of her butt. Since he was sitting beside her and to her back and was below her and behind her she had no idea he was snapping pictures of her in that way. What was more shocking was that he did not hide the pictures from me. The pictures made me sick to my stomach. I talked to him about it after we got home and I said it's creepy and perverted that he did that. I was trying not get too emotional, but of course, I did and was crying. In the end he asked me, but do you love me? and he looked deeply into my eyes. I said I loved him. I don't want to be a prude. I know he has porn on his computer or looks at it, but the picture taking is pushing my boundaries. It makes me wonder what else he has on his computer. We each have our own computers. I'm trying to wrap my head around this and decide what to do. I don't think it's normal behavior. Maybe some people will argue he is just being a guy or acting like a teenager and as long as it doesn't go any further than the picture taking there is no harm done. How would you feel and what would you do in this situation?
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