Hi - I'm a late twenties virgin and my boyfriend and I have been trying to have sex. He has been widening my vaginal entrance with his fingers and then his penis slowly but obviously it is not like usual sexual activity. The other night he was able to penetrate me pretty far but after I saw some blood on the sheets and then a few days later there is still spotting.
We did not use protection as it was a stretching exercise - which I realize is probably a mistake - and I also suffer from vaginismus which is a pretty horrific unconscious clenching condition. I also have a septum/septate band across the opening of my vagina, although that seems intact and that is not the place from where I am bleeding. I am now very worried as I do not have my period and I read that spotting is a sign of pregnancy, an STD or other worrying things.
What could be the explanation for this?
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