um im confused

By twilight fan March 14, 2010 - 5:03pm

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so im like really confused on if my boyfriend wants to have esx with me or not bacause his foster brother says he does but he likes to joke with me and my bf gets like really weird when he kisses me he likes to kiss me alot more than before and then he doesn't want to stop does he want to "get it on" as people say or not because he seems like he does and doesnt at the same time

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Alison Beaver

Twilight fan,
He may, or may not. No one but your boyfriend can answer that question for you, and he may want to in the future, or he may want to wait. That is part of dating...the nervousness, the unknown, the suspense...which is all thrilling, exciting and excruciating at the same time.

Please know that the most important aspect of sex is communication, and that means before you have sex! What type of birth control are you using, and do you both have condoms available? It's OK to wait to have sex, too...whether or not he initiates sex with is not the only way to know if he likes you (my presumption from your question). Other types of physical contact (kissing, holding hands, caressing each other, etc) is very intimate, as well as spending time together, talking about dreams and the future...these are very special times, so I hope you savor every moment and try not to dwell on the "what if's". Life is not predictable or controllable...and it would be boring if it were!

Please let us know if you have any specific health questions, including sexual health, as we are dedicated to helping women improve their health (as opposed to discussing various "what if" relationship questions).

March 14, 2010 - 6:06pm