Are you wanting to be the “conqueror” and prove that you are sexually astute (“like a man”)? Or, are you wanting to truly express yourself sexually and let go of inhibitions for a more enhanced and sexually fulfilling experience.
What does it take to “have sex like a man”? If we are talking about the positive aspects of what our male counterparts bring to the (sex) table, a few qualities come to mind: comfort with our body, thinking we look hot naked(!), confidence, some sexual skills or experience. Also included in this list would include overall assertiveness skills, and knowing the difference between being too aggressive or too passive.
As with most things in life, balance is the key. Women are independent, smart and strong, and sexually assertive women are able to choose what, how, where and with whom we want to have sex.
As John Gray (author of the book, Mars and Venus in the Bedroom) said, “when a woman is in control of her [sexual] pleasure, she can enjoy sex even more.”
What are your views of sexually assertive women? What are some ways that women can be sexually assertive, without crossing the line into being sexually aggressive (or sexually too passive)?