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I'm very young and i have not ever had intercourse but my boyfriend rubbed his penis on my clit up and down but did not put it in my hole. He did not wear any protection and neither did he come and his penis was dry but is there any way that i can get pregnant?
PLEASE HELP ASAP!! :(
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Hi Anonymous,
December 22, 2010 - 9:31amThanks for your post. Try to relax and keep waiting for your period. Please read those articles I posted links to in the comment right above yours. I think it may help explain some things--like how it's difficult to get pregnant without penetration as in intercourse. It's risky what you did, but not likely you would get pregnant this way. Risky, for the most part because it's not very far from what you were doing to full penetration. You know it could take one mistake in the heat of the moment to change your life. You may want to be prepared next time if you decide to continue to be sexually active with your boyfriend, and avoid unwanted pregnancy and STD/STIs.
Good luck and let us know if you have more questions after you read the articles. We're here to help, but you need to EmpowHER yourself too so you can advocate for your own health.
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Hey, im kinda freaking out if a guy presses his penis and rubbs just a little bit, we only did it maybe 1-2 minutes, i'm freaking out he was dry and was just at that moment hard, but i was wet, could i get pregnant?????????!!!!!?!?!?!?!?!
December 21, 2010 - 7:54pmThis Comment
Hi Anonymous,
December 22, 2010 - 7:59amThanks for your post. I'm sorry you are freaking out. When you start to get sexually active with a boyfriend, it's all very exciting, but then the remorse and anxiety sets in, and you wonder what you did and how risky it was. I know how it is. Calm down, and take what you are feeling as a sign you need to know more about sexual activity so you don't need to feel scared and unprepared like you are. Here are a couple articles that should help. And if you haven't been to a doctor yet about your reproductive health, now may be the time to set up an appointment. At that meeting, you can ask the doctor about protecting yourself from unwanted pregnancy.
For more information, please review these articles: Am I Pregnant after Dry Sex, Making Out with Clothes On?, Outercourse, Dry Humping, Dry Sex, The Misconceptions of Sex, and 1st Gynecological Appointment.
Good luck! And let us know if you have more questions after you read all the articles.
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thanks to you all who are helping younger ones like us.i love empower her......i have a bf and the other day we were together,some precum on my inner thigh.....not inside the vagina can it swim up and get me pregnant?
December 17, 2010 - 10:16amThis Comment
Thank you for your comment. Glad the website is beneficial for you. In answer to your question, no, sperm cannot "swim up" your inner thigh.
December 17, 2010 - 10:27amPlease review this article so you can educate yourself and advocate for your health based on facts:
The Misconceptions of Sex
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Hello! I have the same situation as the one above. My boyfriend and I rubbed genitals once with no protection but no contact with the vaginal opening only the clitoris. We had intercourse after that more than once but it was with protection (condoms). I took a "Morning After Pill". I have an irregular cycle, so my period has not come yet. However, I have been experiencing spotting, around twice already in two weeks and my breasts have been sore. I keep urinating but it is because of an tract infection i have been diagnosed with. Symptoms seem tell either i am pregnant or just experiencing PMS, but i took a home Pregnancy Exam and the result was negative. Should I take another test? Should I suspect i am pregnant? Thank you. your site has been very informative!! :-) :-)
December 19, 2010 - 11:04amThis Comment
Hi Anonymous,
December 20, 2010 - 8:24amThank you for your question, and for finding EmpowHER. The morning after pill is known to possibly mess up your menstrual cycle. If your home pregnancy tests are showing up negative, and it's already past when you think you should have gotten your period, you should be ok.
For more information, please review this article: Emergency Contraception Update, 2010
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Hi, I'm a virgin, and my bf was masturbating so I assume there was pre cum on his hand, then he decides to rub his hand against my clits with my underwear on, so I was wondering, will I get pregnant?
December 15, 2010 - 2:49amThis Comment
Hi Anonymous,
December 15, 2010 - 7:29amUnless your underwear was soaked with ejaculatory fluid, you most likely will not get pregnant with your clothing on. Since you are currently "experimenting" with sexual activity, now is the time to educate yourself about what is safe, what can get you pregnant, and how to protect yourself from STD/STIs.
For more information, please review these articles: Am I Pregnant after Dry Sex, Making Out with Clothes On?, Outercourse, Dry Humping, Dry Sex, and The Misconceptions of Sex.
If you have any more questions, please let us know.
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I got my period today, then it stopped. Its been more than a week since i had protected sex, but we rubbed genitals. However, the penis did not come in contact with the opening only the clitoris...... What is this?
December 15, 2010 - 9:09amThis Comment