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Can you get pregnant without the man ejaculating?

By July 21, 2009 - 12:51pm
 
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I'm very young and i have not ever had intercourse but my boyfriend rubbed his penis on my clit up and down but did not put it in my hole. He did not wear any protection and neither did he come and his penis was dry but is there any way that i can get pregnant?

PLEASE HELP ASAP!! :(

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(reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anonymous,
The bleeding you're experiencing is more than likely breakthrough bleeding from taking the EC. Did you read that article about EC? In case you missed it, here it is, so you know what to expect:
Emergency Contraception Update, 2010
In the future, you may want to consult with a doctor about these things, not a friend. You also may want to have your boyfriend pick up some condoms, or ask the doctor about getting on regular birth control so you don't put yourself at unnecessary risk for pregnancy and have to stress about it again.
Good luck!

December 15, 2010 - 9:19am
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Anonymous (reply to Christine Jeffries)

Thank you!

December 15, 2010 - 9:34am
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Anonymous

Hi i have a question about this post

Hi my boyfriend and I are both 18 yr olds, were making out in the shower and i thnk he got carried away and he began rubbing the head of his penis on my clitoris. I think he had a bit of pre-cum but he ddnt ejaculate nor rubbed his penis on the vaginal entrance itself. I took 4 ECs, and another 4 after 12 hours. Is there a chance im pregnant?

what f i stll dnt have my period after a week? My cycle is not regular

December 14, 2010 - 5:24am
(reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anonymous,
Thanks for your question and for finding EmpowHER. The activity you engaged in was minimally risky--it is not likely you could get pregnant from that. Did someone, like a doctor or pharmacist, tell you to take the ECs? Was it just regular birth control you took as EC? When you take EC it can mess up your cycle, so try and remain calm. If your cycle is not regular, it may be more irregular than usual.For more information, please read these articles:
The Misconceptions of Sex, and Emergency Contraception Update, 2010

December 14, 2010 - 7:38am
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Anonymous (reply to Christine Jeffries)

Thanks for your question and for finding EmpowHER. The activity you engaged in was minimally risky--it is not likely you could get pregnant from that. Did someone, like a doctor or pharmacist, tell you to take the ECs? Was it just regular birth control you took as EC? When you take EC it can mess up your cycle, so try and remain calm. If your cycle is not regular, it may be more irregular than usual.

Thanks! I bled lately, it was a thin bloody discharge then it stopped after a while. The EC i took was Nordette, a friend recommended it. could the bleeding possibly be implantation bleeding?

December 15, 2010 - 2:56am
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Anonymous

hey, i am lexy 18, my bf touched his penis with my vagina for 2 seconds and i think it was a bit fluid but he didnt go inside, and i had my mensuation after few days of this event, but now after a month i am not having my periods, could i be pregnant?

December 13, 2010 - 12:38pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

please help me asap.....

December 13, 2010 - 12:39pm
(reply to Anonymous)

Hi Lexie,
It is highly unlikely that you are pregnant. It is not uncommon for a woman's menstrual cycle to change. It's always a good idea to keep track of your cycles to better explain to a doctor if you ever have to visit with one. If you haven't ever been to a gynecologist or family doctor for a well woman checkup, now may be a great time. Here are a couple articles that may be of interest:
Outercourse, Dry Humping, Dry Sex, The Misconceptions of Sex, and 1st Gynecologic Appointment Advocacy Sheet
Good luck!

December 13, 2010 - 1:00pm
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Anonymous

lmao are you people serious? the girl said shes a virgin!! sperm dies when it hits air, it can only live inside the vagina... please look as hard as you can and try to find a virgin that got pregnant! it wont happen. You are not the virgin Mary!!! these people on here telling you it is possible to get pregnant without penetration are most likely one of those people that wore a purity ring till marriage and believe in all that bs about staying a virgin.... they're only trying to scare you or they are talking out of their behind! Sooo if you are a virgin you are not gonna get pregnant if he doesn't stick it in! ask these people that say its possible for proof they wont have it I guarantee you! but you can still get an STD or Herpes!

December 2, 2010 - 12:59pm
(reply to Anonymous)

For clarification please reference the following:
Sperm: How long they live after ejaculation

December 3, 2010 - 8:22am
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