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Can you get pregnant without the man ejaculating?

By July 21, 2009 - 12:51pm
 
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I'm very young and i have not ever had intercourse but my boyfriend rubbed his penis on my clit up and down but did not put it in my hole. He did not wear any protection and neither did he come and his penis was dry but is there any way that i can get pregnant?

PLEASE HELP ASAP!! :(

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Anonymous

Hi. My boyfriend of eight months and I haven't been "sexually active" up untill now. Last time I was with him, we were in his bedroom, completely naked and I gave him a blowjob twice. The first one, I don't think he comed. But the second one, I'm pretty sure he did because I did taste something funny in my mouth. After that time, we were still naked and he was rubbing his penis on my vagina. I was wet. And he did insert his penis in me (does this mean im not a virgin anymore?) but not that far because he hit my "cherry" and I didn't want my "cherry to be popped". He did this a few times, minutes apart. Help me, I'm a big Catholic, young, teenager.

July 19, 2010 - 5:18pm
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Anonymous

Hi, my husband masturbated and when he came, put his penis on top of my vagina (no penetration at all) and spread the cum all over it (both on the clit and on the vagina itself). I am fertile when this happened. Can I get pregnant this way? High/low risk?

July 17, 2010 - 5:21am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Will you please tell me if you got pregnant? Because my boyfriend and I kind of did the same thing and now I'm really worried. If you can, please inform me. Thank you!

November 25, 2011 - 7:29pm
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Anonymous

k me and my boyfriend had sex lyk 13 days back.we used a condom.but now since 3 days im unwell havin loose motions and then vomiting sessions and low BP.im rele worried.i did a pregnancy test and it was negative.could i still be pregnant or its jus indigestion?

July 13, 2010 - 7:13am
(reply to Anonymous)

Great that you used a condom! If you used it correctly, the good news is that condoms are up to 98% effective at preventing pregnancy...the odds are in your favor!

A pregnancy test is too early to be accurate, as you will need to wait until your period begins. If your period does not begin as you expect, wait a few days and then take a pregnancy test...this will be the only time it is 99% effective at detecting any "pregnancy hormone".

When are you expecting your next period? Are you using any type of hormonal contraceptives (the pill, for instance)?

Your symptoms could be indigestion, upcoming period or any number of things, and the only thing to do (unfortunately, I know) is wait until your period.

July 13, 2010 - 1:59pm
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Anonymous

yeah but it feels so good (im a girl

July 3, 2010 - 2:40am
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Anonymous

Can you get pregnat and still be a virgin if there was no penetration?

May 8, 2010 - 9:10pm
(reply to Anonymous)

If there is penis-to-vagina contact, with no penetration, there is the slightest risk of pregnancy. Everyone describes "penetration" differently, so is difficult for us to say absolutely "yes" or "no" on every question. When a man's penis becomes erect, there is pre-ejaculatory fluid on the tip of his penis that may/may not contain sperm. If the man becomes excited during the penis-to-vagina contact, he may ejaculate near/on the vagina without penetrating the vagina, then theoretically...yes, it could be possible to become pregnant in this way.

June 1, 2010 - 6:20pm
(reply to Alison Beaver)

So i had pantys on and he came prematurely..he had no underwear on then tho...it soaked thru my pantys is that really bad?

June 24, 2010 - 10:19am
(reply to Anonymous44)

I'm not sure what you mean by him ejaculating "prematurely", but if your male partner ejaculated on/near your vagina, then there is a chance of pregnancy. It is very slight if there was 100% no penetration, but if enough semen (containing sperm) was ejaculated on/near your vagina, it may be enough for some highly-motivated sperm to make their way inside your vagina.

If the ejaculatory fluid soaked through your underwear, it really depends on many factors, including position and type of coverage the underwear provided. Sperm can not travel through clothing, but what is more likely is that most woman's panties are not "sealed" against our skin; if his penis was near the crotch of your underwear and he ejaculated, there is a lot of space between the crotch of your underwear and your actual skin where ejaculatory fluid could be on your skin.

Bottomline: if the amount and pressure of the ejaculatory fluid was enough to soak the crotch of your underwear near your vagina, it may have been enough to also "travel" past your underwear onto your skin near/on your vagina. There is such a slight risk of pregnancy in this way, but with enough semen on the outside of your vagina, it may be possible.

If the ejaculatory fluid only was on the front part of your panties (near the waist band), then the sperm would not travel through the underwear, down to your vagina.

Does that distinction make sense?

June 24, 2010 - 1:42pm
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