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Can you get pregnant without the man ejaculating?

By July 21, 2009 - 12:51pm
 
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I'm very young and i have not ever had intercourse but my boyfriend rubbed his penis on my clit up and down but did not put it in my hole. He did not wear any protection and neither did he come and his penis was dry but is there any way that i can get pregnant?

PLEASE HELP ASAP!! :(

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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Please someone answer I done the same thing and I'm starting to worry :(

March 24, 2011 - 6:07pm
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Hi Anonymous,
Thank you for participating in the community. Here are some articles that may provide some insight and education for you so you can be more self-assured and won't need to worry. Please let us know if you have more questions after thoughtfully reading them:
Am I Pregnant after Dry Sex, Making Out with Clothes On?, Outercourse, Dry Humping, Dry Sex, and The Misconceptions of Sex.

March 25, 2011 - 8:13am
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Hey, Anon,

Please read Alison's answer above. Yes, it is possible to get pregnant that way. Even if he doesn't ejaculate, he does have pre-ejaculate on his penis, which has sperm in it.

However, I'm a little confused as to how he"s "pretty sure he didn't ejaculate." There's not much mistaking ejaculation, because quite a lot of white, slightly thick/sticky liquid comes out of the penis all at once. If you were rubbing up against one another without clothes on, it should be pretty obvious to both of you if it happens. Does that make sense?

April 14, 2010 - 10:21am
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Anonymous (reply to Diane Porter)

i have a comment right above the one u answered can u please help me with it. thank you... :)))

December 30, 2011 - 5:05pm

ok by what i've read, then me and my boyfriend are sexually active to. i know how you feel, i hate having to worry about that, and right now i am again. idk y i keep putting myself in this situation.

March 4, 2010 - 9:25pm
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Anonymous (reply to sammy_brett)

Ok I've read the past comments and I have the same problem except that my bf ejaculated before then later when he was dry he rubbed his penis on my clit after he was dry. Please reaply and tell me could I get pregnant by that????

January 10, 2012 - 11:12am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

I had my period dec 4th to 10th, boyfriend and I were fooling around naked, his penis tip did no touch me, but the base of his penis did run around my clitoris. About two weeks later I had this brown discharge for about 7 days, (I thought at first I had been cut from being fingered cause it occurred a few days after he fingered me) (also, i felt nauseau/sick for abou 3 days)did research and freaked myself out I could be pregnant from his penis just resting near me( there was no ejaculation) the discharge stopped (could e implanation bleeding ?) but about two days ago i started to feel like I have been urinating a lot and my stomach is slightly sore on the left side. Ideas like ectopic pregnancy are running through my head, and I am just freaking myself out.
Chances of being pregnant? Is my stress over being pregnant causing these symptoms? I am 18.

January 17, 2012 - 1:00am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

To the girl with the brown discharge,
You could have a Urinary Tract Infection.

January 18, 2012 - 6:18pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

I had my period dec 4th to 10th, boyfriend and I were fooling around naked, his penis tip did no touch me, but the base of his penis did run around my clitoris. About two weeks later I had this brown discharge for about 7 days, (I thought at first I had been cut from being fingered cause it occurred a few days after he fingered me) (also, i felt nauseau/sick for abou 3 days)did research and freaked myself out I could be pregnant from his penis just resting near me( there was no ejaculation) the discharge stopped (could e implanation bleeding ?) but about two days ago i started to feel like I have been urinating a lot and my stomach is slightly sore on the left side. Ideas like ectopic pregnancy are running through my head, and I am just freaking myself out.
Chances of being pregnant? Is my stress over being pregnant causing these symptoms? I am 18.

January 17, 2012 - 12:59am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

^ this is me, and my period came today :)

January 27, 2012 - 5:30pm
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