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Can you get pregnant without the man ejaculating?

By July 21, 2009 - 12:51pm
 
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I'm very young and i have not ever had intercourse but my boyfriend rubbed his penis on my clit up and down but did not put it in my hole. He did not wear any protection and neither did he come and his penis was dry but is there any way that i can get pregnant?

PLEASE HELP ASAP!! :(

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Anonymous

hi i am 15 years old and my bf is 19 he rubbed his penis on my vagina but didn't break nor enter it can i become pregnant?

August 6, 2010 - 10:12am
(reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anonymous,
Please read these articles. I think they may answer some questions you have about sexual activity:
For more information, please review these articles: Am I Pregnant after Dry Sex, Making Out with Clothes On? and Outercourse, Dry Humping, Dry Sex, The Misconceptions of Sex, and For more information, please review these articles: Answers for Women: Am I Pregnant After Unprotected Sex?
If you plan to continue to be sexually active, have your boyfriend use condoms, or get an appointment with your doctor or planned parenthood to learn about birth control methods and which would be right for you. If you need help locating a place to go, we can try to help. Now is the time to educate yourself so you can protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy and STD/STIs. Be smart, and you can have fun without anxiety.
Good luck and let us know how you're doing.

November 24, 2010 - 7:36am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

hello there...first off you are only 15 you should not be haveing to worrie about pregnancy..and should not have a man 19 years old almost having sex with you...any how there is a small chance of pregnancy. there is always pr cum present in a man who is erected..but other than that you should be fine as long as he did not go in and cum near or or ur vigina

November 24, 2010 - 6:34am

Hi, my boyfriend nd i have been together quite a while 9 months 2 b exact! I don't want to become pregnant so therefore i do agree to exgage in sexual activity with him but nevr actually have sex! a few days ago he was rupping his penis along my clit! he was drunk nd cant remember if he came or not nd neither can hi.. the next day i took the morning aftr pill which came in a set of 2. i tuk both at once(which im nt sure i should have or not), nd the next day i got my period! im wondering is there a chance a could get pregnant even with taking the morning after pill and not actually having my boyfriends penis penetrate my vigina!
Please reply back asap

July 27, 2010 - 4:59pm
(reply to youknowlol)

HI,
There is a chance of pregnancy if your boyfriend ejaculated on or near your vagina. If you do not remember, unfortunately, you will need to wait until your next period (or, take a home pregnancy test if your period does not begin as expected).

The emergency contraception pill reduces your chances of pregnancy, and if you take it as soon as possible after unprotected sex, it can reduce your risk of pregnancy by up to 80%.

Does this help answer your question?

July 27, 2010 - 8:39pm
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Anonymous

hi, i too had same ,the only difference was we didnt rub, he only touched his organ on my vagina for 2-3 sec and i was on 4th day of my periods..can someone plz plz tell can i become pregnant this way?

July 24, 2010 - 10:06pm
(reply to Anonymous)

If your partner literally touches his penis on the outside of your vagina for only a few seconds while you were menstruating, there would not be a chance for pregnancy.

My only concern is that some women, after-the-fact, are remembering that it was only a few seconds of genital rubbing, or there was only on the outside of their vagina when in fact there was penetration. If you know that there was no penetration, the penis merely touched your vagina on the outside for a few seconds, then there would not be a chance of pregnancy since you are actively menstruating.

July 25, 2010 - 6:29am
(reply to Alison Beaver)

hi! my bf had ejaculated outside and put it on my chest while we are naked,then i wAShed the ejaculated sperm immediately..then, it will go down to my vagina and the rest of my lower body..would it be possible for me to get pregnant?? or the sperm will easily die once it was washed with water??? since it is also my ovulation period.the 1st day of my period was feb. 13,2012..thank you..

February 23, 2012 - 12:04am

Hi Anonymous,
Thanks for finding EmpowHer, and for being a part of our community.
Please go back to the beginning of this thread and read the initial response to the question. I think you'll find all your answers there.
If you're going to continue to be sexually active, please protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy and STDs by using birth control and condoms.
Good luck! This is such an exciting time in your life, please be safe.

July 23, 2010 - 10:01am
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Anonymous

My boyfriend rubs his penis up on my clitoris.There was sperm but little got on my clitoris.Am i at a low or a high risk????

July 23, 2010 - 8:52am
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