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Pregnant through fingering or mutual masturbation??? Help!!

By Anonymous April 2, 2012 - 7:04pm
 
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Hello,
Lately me and my boyfriend have been fooling around and we had alot of pregnancy scares like getting pregnant through dry humping and we learned over time that this is impossible especially with clothes on, but the thing we are worried about now is pregnancy through fingering or touching each other and touching ourselves at the same time. Of course even though we get caught up in the moment, we are still very careful. There was one day when we were doing these things and we washed our hands before we touch each other and im not sure if he washed his hands thoroughly and im really scared because he came a little bit and whiped it off and washed his hands but im still scared. And today im feeling like mini cramps usually signaling me that my period is coming up but im still scared :( please help me???? :(

-worried

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Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend mutually masturbated each other 3 days ago. He did not ejaculate at all, and he only touched the shaft of his penis once, and not the head. He then fingered me, but he did not do it deeply, only stimulated the vulva and clitoris. I had my last period on April 14, could I be pregnant? Should I take an emergency contraceptive?

May 8, 2016 - 1:46pm
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Anonymous

Hello, a couple of weeks ago my girlfriend and I were fooling around. She attempted to get me to c** but she didn't so I ejaculated on a paper towel. Immediately after I threw the paper towel away and washed my hands. I went to the bathroom a couple of minutes later to get rid of what was left in my urethra and used toiled paper for that then flushed it down the toilet. when I washed my hands I used hot water the first time and cold water the next with soap. Then I later f******* my girlfriend about a half and hour later. Once I left the bathroom I made sure that my hands were dry by wiping them off with a towel. My hands were dry before I f******* her. I was wondering if there would be a possible chance there would still be sperm on my hand and my girlfriend could get pregnant?

May 1, 2016 - 11:37am
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Anonymous

Hi, I'm a 26 year old male, and I recently fooled around with my girlfriend. We were naked but there was no penetration, no ejaculation, no pre-ejaculation (we both didn't feel anything wet) and I just fingered her after I touched my own penis shaft. Our genitals were close for a while but I know I didn't touch her vagina with my penis.

What is the probability of pregnancy risk here, because it was my first time ever going that far and I'm quite scared.

April 15, 2016 - 7:10pm
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

There was no risk of pregnancy because you did not have any semen on your fingers. Without penetration and ejaculation, there was no chance of sperm entering her. And, if she was not near ovulating, there was no released mature egg to fertilize.

Regards,
Maryann

April 18, 2016 - 8:48am
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Anonymous

My period last month started at march 4 until 7. My usual cycle is 30 days. On march 11 my boyfriend and I had mutual masturbation. After he cum on a handkerchief he fingered me. I'm not sure if he still have cum on his finger. I also gave him a handjob and I fingered myself after. I'm 7 days late now and having white discharge instead of period. Am I pregnant?

April 9, 2016 - 1:24am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anonymous,

If you have not started your period by the time you read this, please take a home pregnancy test. For the most accurate result, test in the morning and use the first urine when you wake up.

Maryann

April 11, 2016 - 9:54am
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Anonymous

my boyfriend had fingered me and i helped him mutual masturbate. After that, we went to wash ourselves up. I don't remember if I had washed my hands before washing my vagina but now my period is late for a week now. Will there be a chance of pregnancy? We did not and never had sex.

April 4, 2016 - 3:37am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

There would have been a risk if you were ovulating and inserted wet semen directly into your vagina.

Otherwise, just try to relax and your period should start soon.

Maryann

April 5, 2016 - 8:38am
(reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

My period last month started at march 4 until 7. My usual cycle is 30 days. On march 11 my boyfriend and I had mutual masturbation. After he cum on a handkerchief he fingered me. I'm not sure if he still have cum on his finger. I also gave him a handjob and I fingered myself after. I'm 7 days late now and having white discharge instead of period. Am I pregnant?

April 8, 2016 - 5:05pm
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Anonymous

Hello, me and my girlfriend were fooling around and she gave me a hand job, I didn't cm but she had precum on her hands before she had to go, she tells me that after she left she masturbated, now she says she's really nauseous and puking. Could she have gotten pregnant?

April 3, 2016 - 12:04pm
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