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Pregnant through fingering or mutual masturbation??? Help!!

By Anonymous April 2, 2012 - 7:04pm
 
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Hello,
Lately me and my boyfriend have been fooling around and we had alot of pregnancy scares like getting pregnant through dry humping and we learned over time that this is impossible especially with clothes on, but the thing we are worried about now is pregnancy through fingering or touching each other and touching ourselves at the same time. Of course even though we get caught up in the moment, we are still very careful. There was one day when we were doing these things and we washed our hands before we touch each other and im not sure if he washed his hands thoroughly and im really scared because he came a little bit and whiped it off and washed his hands but im still scared. And today im feeling like mini cramps usually signaling me that my period is coming up but im still scared :( please help me???? :(

-worried

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Anonymous

YOU CAN NOT GET PREGNANT UNLESS YOU HAVE INTERCOURSE! MEANING IN YOUR VAGINA. He has to stick it IN YOU. I can't believe how arrogant and stupid this world is on the knowledge of how to get pregnant. The Internet will tell you you can get pregnant this way but it's not accurate! It's all false information. Trust me, I had a pregnancy scare like this once and it told me I was pregnant! That was a year ago and my boyfriend has fingered me more times than I can count and probably with precum on his hands. But guess what babes, IM NOT PREGNANT. Go get you some real education before you post dumb BS.

June 23, 2015 - 6:07am

Help me please !
My boyfriend and I had sex (with condom) and he took off his condom and he possibly just wiped off his penis with a wipee and touched the head of his penis then fingered me like 3 min after . Can I be pregnant ?! I'm about 10 days late and I'm extremely worried

June 7, 2015 - 5:51pm
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Anonymous

heya,,
i am worried ,,, i fingered my girlfriend (we did not had sex) without washing hands but we had clothes on our body, we are not naked. When I fingered, i was not ejaculated still she is worried of getting pregnant. She has missed her periods for 8 days. What to do now...?
help us..

June 5, 2015 - 10:42am
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Anonymous

My boyfriend fingered me today after he wiped off a little bit of sperm of his finger. I am scared to death that I could be pregnant. Is there a chance even if he wiped it off? I am really scared.

May 24, 2015 - 8:44am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

Probably not, if he removed all of the semen from his finger.

Two bits of advice: next time he should wash his hands with soap and warm water; choose and use birth control now that you are sexually active and not ready to become pregnant.

Regards,
Maryann

May 26, 2015 - 9:19am
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Anonymous (reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

Hi
My partner fingered me, there was little to no pre cum in his hand, i am frigthened i could get pregnant by this, so i drank plan B in less than 24 hours, is there risk of pregnancy in this situation?

May 30, 2015 - 6:46pm
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

There was little risk for becoming pregnant, especially if there was no semen on his fingers and if you were not ovulating.

By taking Plan B in less than 24 hours after this incident, you should not conceive.

Regards,
Maryann

June 1, 2015 - 8:53am
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Anonymous (reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

Thank you for responding earlier, I forgot to mention i was ovulating, is there still any risk?, btw plan b has stopped my ovulation, does this mean it is working?

June 1, 2015 - 5:09pm
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

You will know if Plan B worked once you have vaginal bleeding.

Maryann

June 2, 2015 - 8:17am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Additional info, he never went inside to my cervix just in the outside

June 2, 2015 - 4:43am
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