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Pregnant through fingering or mutual masturbation??? Help!!

By Anonymous April 2, 2012 - 7:04pm
 
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Hello,
Lately me and my boyfriend have been fooling around and we had alot of pregnancy scares like getting pregnant through dry humping and we learned over time that this is impossible especially with clothes on, but the thing we are worried about now is pregnancy through fingering or touching each other and touching ourselves at the same time. Of course even though we get caught up in the moment, we are still very careful. There was one day when we were doing these things and we washed our hands before we touch each other and im not sure if he washed his hands thoroughly and im really scared because he came a little bit and whiped it off and washed his hands but im still scared. And today im feeling like mini cramps usually signaling me that my period is coming up but im still scared :( please help me???? :(

-worried

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Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anonymous,

I doubt she became pregnant this way. Pre ejaculate fluid itself does not contain sperm. If you had a previous but recent ejaculation, some sperm could remain in your urethra. Once you urinated, any stowaway sperm was flushed out.

Consider that time passed from being with you to her getting home, even if there was any fluid on her hands and fingers, it would have dried and any possible sperm had died.

Maryann

April 5, 2016 - 8:35am
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Anonymous

Hi. My gf and i had make out. She masterbate me and i fingered her but i think i touch my penis. Because she said i had precum so i touch it if i really had precum. Then i touch her. It happen march 5 and it happened again i think march 8 i she gave me hand job and i ejaculated but she had clothes on and after i ejaculate we always wash our hands. And its like almost a month and her period still not coming. We research about it find that she is experiencing some symptopms. Like mettalic taste and breast pain. She had workouts and have trouble sleeping. Is there any chance that ahe is pregnant?

March 30, 2016 - 11:32pm
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Anonymous

I want to make sure that my Girlfriend in not pregnant from following scenario…

I have masturbated at 11 am in morning that fingered my girl friend at 9:00 pm in night during the whole day i had been to washroom for at-least 2 times for passing urine..

Now please tell me that after 10 hours if i have fingered my girlfriend can create chances of being pregnant?

Note: we both were wearing clothes and penis was under jeans for a long time where several quantity of pre semen passed and for fingering first I lift her panty then do it and before my hand touch to her panty.

Please tell me the likely hood of pregnancy.

Pardon for my english.

March 7, 2016 - 11:08am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anonymous,

From what you have shared, there was no risk of your girlfriend becoming pregnant. With no semen on your fingers, with no penetration with ejaculation, there was no chance at all.

Regards,
Maryann

March 8, 2016 - 9:49am
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Anonymous

A little over a month ago my boyfriend and I were fooling around. He ejaculated and we both got in on our hands. We washed it off with water and wiped our hands with towels. About 15-30 minutes later he touched my clit. On the day I expected my period I got bleeding, and it lasted for about 5 days, but it was a little bit lighter than usual. It was right after exams and I was also in a car accident a couple days earlier so it may have been lighter just from stress. Either way, I read that you can still get bleeding when pregnant. I don't really have any other symptoms but I'm still worried. Is it possible that I'm pregnant?

February 25, 2016 - 6:15pm
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Anonymous

Hello! (First I want to apologize for my poor english and for the question that is probably more of the same you guys get everyday. I wouldn't contact you If I wasn't so desperate)
What I wanted to know is "Can I get pregnant by masturbating myself alone in the barthroom?"
I know a finger can't get anyone pregnant, but what if my brother let some sperm "lost" in the bathroom, I wasn't able to see/identify it and after touching it accidently I touched myself?
I washed my hands before I started touching myself but I'm not sure if I did or didn't touch the bathroom curtain before starting.
I didn't put my finger inside my vaginal canal (Just in the clitoris and the entry of my vagina) and my fertile fluid had ended up two days before the day I mastubated.
Is that possible for me to get pregnant from my own brother?
How could I explain that to my parents?

February 7, 2016 - 1:46pm
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Anonymous

Me and my wife are planning for a child. I usually do a hand job with my penis and later put the semen directly into my wife vagina. Does it cause pregnancy? After sex some times my wife after a week masturbates , so does this effect her from getting pregnant? Kindly help by giving your suggestion

January 16, 2016 - 12:40pm
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Anonymous

Hello
We did mutual masturbation, but he had masturbated 30 Minutes ago and he did not pee, he fingered me during mutual masturbation but I am not sure if he had touched a little precm before fingering me.
I am scared, what are the chances of pregnancy caused through precm?
Though its highly unlikely that he touched his precm and directly fingered me, he Slid his hands through my pant first
Please help me

January 15, 2016 - 9:43am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

Pre ejacculate fluid itself does not contain sperm. However, as in your situation, sperm can remain in the male's urethra from a prior but recent ejaculation. Any tag along sperm is removed when the guy urinates.

If there was no pre ejaculate fluid on his finger, you are okay.
There is no way of knowing for sure.

Since you are sexually active and not ready to become pregnant, please use some type of birth control. The available options range from a daily birth control pill to the Depo-Provera injection.

Regards,
Maryann

January 15, 2016 - 10:35am
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Anonymous

Hello I missed my period for the month of December my boyfriend and I have been fooling around and he has fingered me can I be pregnant i also threw up one morning but i think that was a stomach bug because since then i havent threw up. So can I be pregnant?

January 11, 2016 - 12:44pm
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