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Hello,
Lately me and my boyfriend have been fooling around and we had alot of pregnancy scares like getting pregnant through dry humping and we learned over time that this is impossible especially with clothes on, but the thing we are worried about now is pregnancy through fingering or touching each other and touching ourselves at the same time. Of course even though we get caught up in the moment, we are still very careful. There was one day when we were doing these things and we washed our hands before we touch each other and im not sure if he washed his hands thoroughly and im really scared because he came a little bit and whiped it off and washed his hands but im still scared. And today im feeling like mini cramps usually signaling me that my period is coming up but im still scared :( please help me???? :(
-worried
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Hi, around the time of my ovulation, my boyfriend and i did some mutal masturbation. he came when i was stroking his penis with my right hand. i did not touch myself after that. he is sure that his hand did not come into contact with his penis after he came. but we are unsure if thats for sure or if he touched any pre ejaculate. after he came, he fingered me. i have some light spotting last night but there was no more bleeding today. period not due till 4 days. i have also had cramping for the last 1 week and am feeling more tired than usual. what does this mean? thanks!
October 8, 2015 - 12:28amThis Comment
Hi canpregnant by fingering with a little semen on the hands? I was doing an hand job to him and i touched a little wet in the head of his penis then suddenly i fingered myself after that, but before i fingered myself i rubbed my thumb into my pointinf finger, is there any chance that i would be pregnant? Im freaking out
August 13, 2015 - 5:03amThis Comment
What happens if I fail to take the 2nd dose of ec on time? Like 3 hours after? Would it still be effective?
I took the 1st dose within 24 of having unprotected sex.
July 11, 2015 - 2:47pmThis Comment
If me and my boyfriend were doing mutual masturbation and he cmmed on my hand but I just rubbed it into my hand and about 5-10 minutes later I began rubbing down in my vaginal area, could I be at risk for pregnancy? My period ended a day before this incident.
July 11, 2015 - 9:13amThis Comment
My friend and I were fooling around and he masturbated (but didn't cm), he then fingered me without washing his hands. I've read that there is a slight possibility of becoming pregnant through precm. (I'm still a virgin - though I don't think that would matter in this case)
My questions are:
1. Is it possible that I would be pregnant?
2. Would it be better if I take emergency contraception (EC)?
Hope to hear from you soon. But I think I'll take the safe route and take the EC. Still would like your opinion though. And yes, next time we'll be safer. Thanks!
July 10, 2015 - 2:56pmThis Comment
Hello Anonymous,
If there was no semen on your friend's fingers, there was no risk for you becoming pregnant by fingering.
There is no need to take an emergency contraceptive. You will cause yourself more harm by doing so. An emergency contraceptive is a strong pill. It contains a high dose of the same synthetic hormone found in most birth control pills.
Pre ejaculate might contain sperm if the male has recently ejaculated. Sperm can stow away in the urethra but is flushed out when the male voids.
Regards,
July 10, 2015 - 4:25pmMaryann
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Thanks for the response. Another question, recent ejaculation, as you mentioned, in terms of time would be how long? 5 mins? 10 mins?
Thanks in advance!
July 10, 2015 - 4:42pmThis Comment
Hi Anonymous,
By recent< I mean under six hours.For example, a guy masturbates and ejaculates at 9:00 am. He voids four hours later. The sperm is out of his body.
Maryann
July 10, 2015 - 4:48pmThis Comment
Void meaning urinate? I think he did urinate prior to us fooling around. Many thanks for the info!
July 10, 2015 - 5:22pmThis Comment
If me and my boyfriend were doing mutual masturbation and he cummed on my hand but I just rubbed it into my hand and about 5-10 minutes later I began rubbing down in my vaginal area, could I be at risk for pregnancy? My period ended a day before this incident.
July 10, 2015 - 10:45amThis Comment