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I can't believe I'm asking this but I'm starting to freak out a little bit.
A few days after my period ended, my boyfriend and I were "messing around." He put his bare penis up to my bare vagina and started rubbing before I told him to stop and put on a condom. (I'm not on any other form of birth control right now.) No ejaculation and no penetration, just possible precm on my vagina.
I didn't think anything of it at the time, but now my period is a few days late - I've had some weird light brown spotting with period-esque cramps, but no period. My breasts are tender and look a little bigger to me, and my skin has absolutely exploded with acne (although that is not unusual for me). I'm kind of freaking out.
I took a sensitive early test the day my period should have come, and it was negative, but still no period. A pregnancy would be absolutely devastating, especially without intercourse - I'm not even sure my boyfriend would believe me. :(
I should mention that I recently stopped taking the Pill because it was making me super depressed and physically ill. I was told to expect some cycle weirdness after stopping, but I'd gone through two full cycles and my period seemed perfectly normal.
Am I making myself nuts or is there a real risk here?
Thanks very much for your help.
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August 14, 2016 - 8:07pmMe and my bf were messing around on Saturday. We were grinding against each other. I was with my panties on but he was naked. I don't remember if he touched my vagina with his fingers but I think he did before he came. Later He came in my stomach... it's is possible for me to get pregnant?
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Need some help. My gf and I did some intimate things and so she rub her vagina on my penis. I ejaculated and most of the semen didn't hit her vagina but a few amount did. I'm worries now that she could get pregnant. Today is the start of her fertility days. I asked her to go and wash up straight away after that. She hasn't taken any pills. I need help pls any information would help greatly. Thank you...
August 8, 2016 - 3:51amThis Comment
Stressed!!
August 8, 2016 - 3:43amSo today me and my gf we were making out and all and I rub my penis outside of her vagina and I ejaculated. Now I'm worried is that a small amount of the semen hit her vaginal area while a large amount didn't but we're sure that my penis didn't enter the vagina. I'm worried she would get pregnant. Today is the start of her "fertile days". Pls help. Thank you and you're help will really appreciate us
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Hello! I would like to ask if there's a chance of getting pregnant since we've tried grinding our genitals and then my boyfriend ejaculated near my vagina. I'm on my 14th day after my first day of my last menstruation. Should I take ECP already? Thank you!
August 4, 2016 - 7:43pmThis Comment
Hello Anonymous,
If you have a 28 to 30 day menstrual cycle, you could be ovulating about now.
When did this happen? Ejaculating outside of your body, on your outer genitalia carries a risk but not as great as if he penetrated and ejaculated inside of your vagina.
An emergency contraceptive prevents pregnancy by preventing ovulation. It is effective if taken within 72 hours of unprotected intercourse. My concern is it may be too late and unnecessary.
Contact and check with your physician before taking it.
Maryann
August 5, 2016 - 9:36amThis Comment
Hi there,
I am a woman in her mid twenties and am still a virgin. I am in need of some advice regarding an unfortunate encounter I had Saturday night. My partner and I got rather intimate and stepped way out of our usual and talked about boundaries. We have never had sex and our saving ourselves for marriage and I am not on any birth control. He fingered me and I gave him a hand job and I noticed pre-ejaculate fluid. About another 45 minutes into it, our genatalia made contact for a brief 3-5 minutes where his penis made contact with my vagina. No penetration whatsoever though. Afterwards, we realized that we went way too far and this is mistake not soon to be repeated. My partner never did ejaculate and peed often before we even became intimate that night. I have read that the chances of becoming pregnant due to pre-ejaculation coming into contact like that is highly unlikely, but I am still worried that it may happen.
We both understand that our actions were completely irresponsible and we plan not to be even in this realm of activity for quite a while. We have both looked into Plan B and it has still only been 41 hours since the encounter.
Does our situation qualify for taking Plan B and would it be recommended that I take it?
I appreciate your time.
Thank you.
August 1, 2016 - 1:56pmThis Comment
Hello Anonymous,
It is now Tuesday and three days since this sexual encounter. It may be too late to take an emergency contraceptive and expect it to be effective.
Pre ejaculate fluid itself does not contain sperm. If your partner had a recent ejaculation, sperm could have remained in his urethra. But, since he urinated, any sperm was flushed out.
I do not think you needed to take Plan B.
Regards,
August 2, 2016 - 9:47amMaryann
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Hi, my girl and I are absolutely freaking out I was running my penis on her vagina and we were being very intimate and now she's going on 32 days without her period but I did not cum and I peed before we did it, is it possible my precum got her pregnant?
July 31, 2016 - 1:24pmThis Comment
Me and my girl friend had dry sex with our cloths on I didn't ejaculate but some pre ejaculation, almost 18 days have passed but my gf is suffering witj headache, nausea and weakness quite often please can you help me whether she is pregnant? ??
July 26, 2016 - 4:28pmThis Comment
Anonymous: I am sure that you get questions like this all of the time, but here it goes. I just need some reassurance. My girlfriend and I have masturbated each other. I finger her first (with my boxers still on) and then she masturbates me using her hand afterwards (with her underwear on). I covered myself with a paper towel before I came, and I don't ever remember her touching herself down there at all afterwards, is it possible at all if she had some precm on her hand and touched herself while using the restroom 5 minutes or so afterwards for her to get pregnant? Thanks. From all that I've heard, it is pretty much impossible, but I just need to put my mind at ease. (She's also a virgin) The only reason I worry is because she is 10 days or so late with her period, and was feeling sick the last few days.
July 12, 2016 - 7:45pmThis Comment